Gong Xi Fatt Chai

My little danish wish you Gong Xi Fatt Chai.

Happy Valentine

My blog friend http://lbsimba.blogspot.com/ has written a great Valentine article-“My funny valentine”. I really agree with you. Our lovely wife change us a lot. Before I met her (my lovely wife) and I as an ex-planter always in mind that man must enjoy the life with girl, rock music, great food and everything that I can enjoy. I used to go to bar with friends and look for young “chick” but I still can not get the girl I wanted in my life. Until one day she appeared in front of my office. She is so pure and innocent if I compare with other girl I met before.

However, we have went through a tough time before we are able to marry because we are coming from difference world. In my culture, our old generation are very difficult to accept difference race as their family member. However, love is blind. When you have dream life partner, you need to be brave to accept her even through you face against from a lot of parties.

Similar to my blog friend, we owe our valentine (wife) too much. They made our life more meaningful and colorful and now with my naughty Danish. My life is fully occupied and no time to rest but to me this is a great life as wanted by me since I was a bachelor.

Happy Valentine to my lovely Wife…….jul.

“Discover the 90/10 principle”

During traveled from Melaka to Ipoh, Perak. I read an article from The Edge titled as “Discover the 90/10 principle” and I realized that I was in fool and stressed out.

I had blamed my lovely wife of misuse her hand phone. She just called her relative for chit-chat and I simply blamed her. Am I stupid? Perhaps the whole week I a bit tired with field work and have a bad mood. I really felt sorry to her. I understand that take care of 5 months Danish is tough work and I really respected her the love she has given to Danish and papa.

When I finished read the article and thought back. It is a shameful attitude I had done to my lovely. Because a few ringgit, I blamed her for nothing. I really lost control and ruin the whole night sleep before I traveled to Ipoh.

Hence, my dear friend/Blogger. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friendship, getting stressed out and so on. Why we need to get stressed out? It just make thinks worse.

My dear darling…….I no mean to hurt you. Happy Valentine.

Life is good

Live as a human. We need to enjoy the life. If you don't like your life. You will suffer for the whole life. Thus, always make yourself happy daily. No point we point finger and blame people. Please read one of the blog I found regarding Life is good. She is a good example we need to follow.

http://lifeweebell.blogspot.com/