Ho….Ho….Ho

Next week is Christmas and for those Christian family is rushing to shop for their last preparation.

Time goes very fast and we are in the end of year 2006. One of my blog friends http://ipoh_mari.blogspot.com wrote the article about achievement of the year 2006. Thus, I also would like to share my achievement with him.

I took my daily and review what I did for the part 11 months ago. I noticed that I had been traveled from South (Johor) to North (Perlis), North to East (Sarawak) and last back to my origin-Melaka. Travel for the whole year mainly to earn money. However, I still have some backlog projects still unable to settle where the expiry date is middle of year 2007 and there is one of my objectives for year 2007. After I left from Planter career, I always treat my present service as my business. Once I solved the problem, then I am sure that the income will channel to me subsequently but I need to work hard and gap the opportunity. Overall, I still can not see the profit where I have spent 2 years effort in my present business but I believe what I do at present is for my future and my next generation.

Work is important. Never forget your family. I spare about 10% of my time with my wife and I think this is not a quality time for her especially now I have my little Danish. Hence, I decided to shift them to Melaka on 1 January 2007. I wish they will happy to stay with me at the new environment where I choose for them.

The great achievement for the year 2006 is the gift of Danish by Him to my wife and me. We really appreciated Him. Danish change our life and it is something “promotion” to us as a new couple. Finally, we are promoted as papa and mama. Last week, we noticed that the little Danish are able to call “mama” when he is hungry. I think this is the first word wanted to hear by a female call mama. Is it wonderful? You also will cry when yours little start to greet you as mama or papa.

I still remember Danish’s mum used to sms me that the little Danish never “sit” quietly when he was in his mum stomach. He liked to turn around and worst part he did on night day caused his mum could not sleep well but his mum never complaint. The patience, love and care were given to this little I really respected to my lovely. I believed all the mum have the same attitude (mother love) to their baby because they are your own blood.

911 is the date where terrorist attached US Twice Tower and this is my Danish said “Hello” to our world. However, the journey to this world is not easy as I think before Him release Danish. This guy took more than 12 hours to “report” and makes his papa and mama damn worried. He could not bear in nature method and needed to do operation. I ceased all my work and concentrated on them. I worried because this is my first baby. I could not sleep and eat well during that period and just remember my lovely and the baby.

I understand that my lovely was suffering after more than 12 hours. She was exhausted and pain when I looked at her. I very worried and I only can pray to Him and requested Him to safe my lovely and my little Danish. I could not afford to lose them because they are everything to me. I love them very much.

About 10.15pm on September 9. Finally, I am able to hear my little Danish “cry” from the operation room. I damn happy and excited but the nurse told me that she needed to rush to incubator room immediately because my baby lack of Oxygen. We rushed to the incubator room immediately. After placed Danish in the incubator, he was able to breathe in normal and the great action he did was smile to me. J He knows I am his papa.

After Danish in stable condition, I rush back to operation room to see my wife. About 11pm. Thanks God. My wife is safe. I could not believe that the “game” is over. I shook hand with the doctor and all the staff involved where they had did a great job. I really respected them. They are my angel.

The whole week I was with them. I visited them from morning until late evening. Took pamper for Danish and food for my wife. It was tired but when I looked at my wife and the baby, I forgot all the tiredness.

In incubator room, I saw many “unlucky” babies were located here because of their health problem. Some of them are thin and small. Pity to see them. But no to my little Danish. He is huge and his weight reach 3.5kg and this is the main reason he could not born in nature way. Last week, his weight increased to 5.5 after 3 months. So, what do you think of my Danish.

For those friends whose wife in pregnant period please spent more time with your lovely? They are brave to born the baby for you. Never ignore them. Moral support is important during that period. Temporary forget your duty and accompany her until you hear “wa….wa….wa”. You will cry.

Thus, my wife and Danish are my great achievement for the year 2006.

Ho…Ho…Ho…Merry Christmas to you all.